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June 21, 2006

Is it true?

From sixteen days under the sundae:

ok so i have gone on an average of 3 ‘first dates’ a week for the past month. that’s pretty good, i figure.

here are some things i’ve figured out:
1) guys don’t want to date women who have kids
2) guys don’t want to date women who don’t want kids
3) it doesn’t matter if i get naked on the first date, don’t get naked on the first date, dress up, dress down, am vivacious and flirty or am a quiet good listener - guys only want to shag me.
4) if i do put out on the first date, nine times out of ten they don’t call back
5) if i don’t put out on the first date, nine times out of ten they don’t call back
6) if they do call back, it’s usually to say that they aren’t looking for a relationship right now, but would like to ‘take it one step at a time’
7) ‘take it one step at a time’ means hang out long enough to a) shag again or b) shag for the first time, and *then* stop calling
8) none of the advice that anyone has given me has worked

My own experiences as well as bearing witness to my friends expereriences lead me to agree with much of this list and thus I find it greatly entertaining, but at the same time it kind of gives reason for a girl to become dejected, ya know?

In other news, I am up on 25peeps.com. Go click away so I can feel popular.

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5 Responses to “Is it true?”

  1. Saskboy said:
    June 21st, 2006 at 10:41 pm

    ”
    4) if i do put out on the first date, nine times out of ten they don’t call back
    5) if i don’t put out on the first date, nine times out of ten they don’t call back”

    I vote not true on the basis of logic alone.

  2. Vince said:
    June 21st, 2006 at 11:46 pm

    Must disagree… Perfectly logical, not self-contradictory.

    BTW, Brea… you’re like #4 already, so you *are* popular!

  3. lance said:
    June 22nd, 2006 at 3:48 am

    No. i’m with Saskboy on this one. 3 dates/wk for a month == 12 dates give or take. 9/10 twice would indicate at least twenty dates.

    Cheers,
    lance

  4. brea said:
    June 22nd, 2006 at 7:00 am

    Okay, smarty pant boys, ignoring the fact her math is a little off, you can get the gyst of her point. :)

    I know this isn’t true for ALL males, but a frightening number. Just like most females stupidly think a guy will give them what they want without telling him what that is.

    I’m glad most of the list isn’t applicable to me. I don’t have kids. I want kids. I hope guys don’t only want to shag me. I try not to put out on a first date, but who are we kidding, it has happened to everyone, luckily enough I have been called back. I’ve seen all those happen before though. 6,7,8 I definitely agree with.

  5. Vince said:
    June 22nd, 2006 at 9:08 pm

    So you’re saying she’s only dated for a month? Or that she said at some point that she dated exactly 20 men?

    Oh nevermind… you guys just don’t want to admit she might be right.

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