August 10, 2006
A classic example…
Of how I can be a complete hypocrite.
Okay.
Let’s start at the beginning.
I know I said I had a good date with Andre (pseudonym due to his striking resemblance to the tennis superstar) and I did. I really did. The only thing missing? The very important fireworks. As I explained to a few friends of mine, I’m more apt to punch him on the shoulder and suggest going for a beer than I am to even entertain the thought of getting nekkid with him.
Anyway, I think it is pretty clear that he is interested in me, at least a little, since he has asked me out at least 5 times since that date, but nothing has worked out.
Now here is how I am a hypocrite…
I’ve determined I’m not interested in him, but rather than actually telling him that I’m not, I’m tempted to just pull a disappearing act. You know, not return his calls or text messages. Bitch alert, right here. The problem is, I don’t think my conscience will let me do that. I mean, for example, remember this? When I had the disappearing act pulled on me? It has happened a couple of times, because boys are dumb. After, I always think “Dude! Don’t be such a panty! Cowboy up and tell me you just aren’t interested, don’t leave me wondering if you died or something!”
And here I am, wanting to do exactly what I hate having done to me.
Hellooo hypocrisy…
(Advice appreciated.)
August 10th, 2006 at 9:21 am
Advice, eh? Lie. Make shit up. Tell him you’re not interested. Tell him you’re not “feeling it”. Tell him you’re sorry, but you’re moving on. Wait a minute… Oh. I guess, telling the truth works just as well
Be good to yourself.
August 10th, 2006 at 11:03 am
You crack me up. It’s a tough one. The correct thing to do is to be a “man” and break it off. Maybe that will do us good with the whole relationship karma.
I’ll tell you what, I’ll do it if you do!
August 10th, 2006 at 11:39 am
Yeah im with everyone else on this one Brea, its better to hear from a woman that shoot from the hip sorta answwer, then to pussy foot around the whole thing excuse my use of words. same thing happened to me, and I was like, ok WTF is going, did i say something, did i do something wtf is going on. instead of days/weeks maybe months on end. tell him straight.
if hes a man, he`ll take it and move on. if he doesnt, then maybe u really do got bad luck with guys, ala Stalker style :O
if he does do it stalker style lemme know,I m sure a big 6 foot native guy can help with that situation lol.
cheers.
August 11th, 2006 at 4:28 pm
i’ve done both brea. sacked up and was just straight with her, and the not call back or email thing. one is a satisfying end, one not so much. which way is going to let you live with yourself?
August 11th, 2006 at 6:26 pm
STOP being such a hypocrite
August 12th, 2006 at 5:22 am
You should tell him. Mainly because the alternative of faking your own death is so impracticle.
It also makes it awkward if you bump in to them later on…
:)